Thursday, November 16, 2017
Wednesday, October 25, 2017
I have had this blog banging around in my soul the past few days. So I'm going to try to quick get it out before I start working today. It's about a handful of sorrow.
I've been in a bit of a funk lately. Honestly, it's about money. It's embarrassing to admit that because anyone who's followed this blog knows that we "know what it is to be in need" and we have watched as God has carried us through some VERY lean times... yet STILL as we inch closer and closer to late fees on our bills... as our savings dwindles a bit more each day... I feel discouragement settling in.
I know in the DEPTHS of me that "God's got this"... I realize that this testing of my faith develops perseverance... Yes! And AMEN! But I don't really like this venue of $0.83 cents till payday, working OT yet still barely enough to pay those looming medical bills, just replaced the dishwasher and now the brakes are going. I don't like it!
So the past two days God has been ministering to me that EVERY single season of life has a handful of sorrow. This perfectionist wants a neat, tidy, bills paid early kinda life, but that is NOT reality. That is NOT an earthly existence. Reality is: on this earth there will ALWAYS be a handful of sorrow. Whether that handful is ice cold or burning hot... Whether it CONSUMES our life or quietly nags in the background... no one... no time... no thing on this earth is perfect.
When my kids were lil enough to fit in my lap.... that's a season I LONG to return to. But honestly I was SO BONE WEARY TIRED... I absolutely NEVER peed alone... I was outnumbered, out gunned, and constantly flying by the seat of my pants. Now most of them are bigger than I am... they don't snuggle as much... they don't need me as much... but they are HELPFUL... they've been taking care of momma and pretty much running this house for 5 months while I've been laid up... and they are these AMAZING humans who I love to be around.
[Okay for those of you who are wondering when I'll ever get to my point.... I'm there!] Every season has good... every season has a handful of sorrow... I need to STOP pining for perfection and rejoice over the good while embracing the sorrow. The landscape of my current situation is flawed, but it is also SO BEAUTIFUL.
Accept that handful of sorrow... every season of life will have one.... and make sure to lift your eyes up off that handful and appreciate the beauty that is RIGHT NOW.
I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.
Saturday, October 14, 2017
This morning in my quiet time I wrestled with this verse:
For the Lord God is our sun and our shield. He gives us grace and glory. The Lord will withhold no good thing from those who do what is right.
Actually this portion of the verse:
The Lord will withhold no good thing from those who do what is right.
I struggled because I can think of MANY times when I "did what was right" and the results were anything but good....
*forgave someone... then THEY rejected ME
*told the truth, the whole truth, and NOTHING but the truth with TERRIBLE consequences
*defend someone... they respond by ATTACKING me
So the first time I read the verse my heart said, "Yeah right."
But then as I re-read and pondered it occurred to me...
What if the "good thing" is that icky result? What if the gift of God was removing that person from my life so I could be free? What if the good thing was that hellish walk through NIGHTMARISH experiences. What if the attack was my blessing cuz it made me stronger?
It all boils down to this... we have to BELIEVE and TRUST God and His word ALL OF THE TIME. His word says:
The Lord will withhold no good thing from those who do what is right.
I will choose to believe that is true even when it doesn't SEEM like I'm getting a "good thing."
Sunday, October 8, 2017
Writing soothes my soul. When my heart is all jumbled with feeling, the way I untangle that mess is with writing. So let's work it out then.
Fear... I'm really afraid. On the outside and even a little on the inside, I look like I trust God, but deep inside in the secret parts of my heart fear lurks and sometimes even reigns.
I'm afraid of bad things happening to my children. I'm afraid of not being able to pay the bills. I'm afraid of the bad things people say and think about me. I'm afraid of conflict. I'm afraid of making mistakes.
If I'm being bare-naked honest here (which is what I strive for on this blog), all of those things I'm afraid of have happened to me. My fears are like an emotional PTSD.... I remember the pain and I'm afraid to repeat it. Bad things happening to my children... yups! some truly terrible things have been traveled on that road. Not being able to pay the bills... yups! been there... done that... People thinking horrible things about me... sure! every. single. day. Making mistakes... yes! my failures abound.
I guess the fact that I've been down these roads and survived should ease my fears. I should stand firm in the knowledge that God has NEVER let me down in the past so logic would say He won't let me down in the future. But my fear isn't that God won't get me through. I believe 100% that He is bigger than ANYTHING I face. My fear stems from a deep desire to avoid those painful journeys.
Ahhhh but THERE it is... the clarity that comes from writing it all out... my aha! moment..... pain is a part of living on this sin-soaked earth. Pain is unavoidable. Not until Heaven will I get the sunshine, rainbow and lollipop existence I so long for.... it's actually GOOD that I don't like the flaws of this existence. I SHOULD long for my heavenly home. And that is what my fears stem from... a longing for a place with no more crying, no more pain, no more death.
Maybe tomorrow I'll blog about how I'm currently slaying the daunting dragons advancing against me... for today I just needed to hash out why I can't seem to put my fears completely to rest. Thanks for journeying with me.
He will wipe every tear from their eyes, and there will be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain. All these things are gone forever.
Wednesday, October 4, 2017
I read this in my devotional this morning,
"If we do not have a correct theology of suffering, we will be shocked, devastated, and angered when adversity strikes us or those we love."
It got me thinking... what is a right theology of suffering? I'm not sure yet. But here's what I know about suffering,
*From experience I know that suffering comes to EVERYONE... the godly and the ungodly...
*From experience I also know that if I allow it to, suffering produces growth in my life...
*Finally from experience I know that suffering allows God to show Himself to me... through His word... through His people... through His miraculous works.
Each of these facets of my theology of suffering is from scripture as well,
*In that way, you will be acting as true children of your Father in heaven. For he gives his sunlight to both the evil and the good, and he sends rain on the just and the unjust alike.
*Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.
*He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us.
2 Corinthians 1:4
I'm planing to ponder this for awhile. Cuz for some reason my mind KNOWS these things about suffering, yet STILL when thrust into the midst of it my heart is still shocked, devastated, and yes, angry.